Written by Sheri Sundheimer
In loving memory of her husband, Ed, Sheri Sundheimer offers to share an excerpt from her journal…” journaling felt better than I thought it would…I hope it helps others to share.”
Two months and eleven days seems to be forever long, but at times, those days feel only as if I just blinked. In reality, I have done so much and know in my heart how proud Ed would be in me — I purchased
our final resting place, moved in a beautiful apartment with my daughter, Tracie and granddaughter, Haylie, paid off our bedroom set and my car. Taking care of mom and allowing my pets to somehow fill a space of a very lonely heart. Some of these days have been okay,
but tears still flow like a river. It’s okay to cry – its nature’s way of destressing. I don’t know how I have made it to today – my faith. Yes, and to know that God allows Ed to have my back – to give me the strength to keep going, and also all the love and encouragement I have received from my children – especially Tracie. She lets me cry, laugh and just sit. And she never tells me that it’s not okay to do so. I see so much of Ed in her, at time it is scary – goes to show that blood does not make you a Dad, love does.
The Benefits of Journaling – It is common for individuals to struggle with their expression of thoughts and feelings during grief following the loss of a loved one. Bereaved individuals often identify the worry of ‘burdening’ their loved ones with what they’re going through as one of the reasons for this common struggle. This is where journaling can be a healing tool, as it is a safe outlet to express thoughts and feelings at a pace they are comfortable with. A journal is a safe place to unload the many emotions that are often experienced, rather than bearing that weight day in and day out. Journaling also allows us time with those thoughts to reflect, identify problems and solutions to those problems and even showing us how far we may have come in the healing process.
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